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She has a boyfriend but I think she likes me, what do you do?

Love is sweet, and it’s even sweeter when two people feel the same way about each other. Controlling whom we develop feelings for is often beyond our control. After all, it’s a matter of the heart.

So what do you do if you start to develop feelings for a girl who has a boyfriend? The first thing you want to figure out is if she reciprocates the feeling.

Don’t expect her to come to you and admit it. It would help if you also didn’t get too carried away with any of her actions. Many guys intentionally misread certain behaviors and fool themselves into thinking a girl feels the same way about you.

So how do you avoid misinterpreting the wrong signs? Well, we came up with a list of some behaviors you should look out for.

Disclaimer: we are not saying you should go around trying to steal women from their boyfriends. We are just informing you on how to tell if a girl in a relationship likes you. We don’t want to be held responsible for what might happen to you.

Before we jump into it, we’ll take a quick look at some things you need to pay attention to. Note, these are quite different from the signs she gives away through her body (body language).

She has a boyfriend but I think she likes me

Her Actions

  • Touching
  • Body language
  • Prolonged eye contact
  • How she behaves around her boyfriend

Her Conversations With You

  • Pay attention to her sense of humor
  • Take note of the topics she talks to you about
  • Pay close attention to what she says about her boyfriend
  • How does she speak with you about her boyfriend?
  • Her texts with you can tell you a lot

Feel it Out

Now you need to think about how you are going to approach this. Consider some of these points:

  • What are your intentions?
  • When and how will you flirt with her
  • Will you let her know that you are interested?
  • Know when it’s right to back off

When a girl is in a relationship, we tend to think that she must be in love. The truth is much more complicated than that. There are an infinite amount of reasons why people stay in a relationship even if there’s no love.

Some people stay because they are comfortable and scared to be on their own. However, if these women find a better option, then they will readily leave their guy for another.

The greatest ally in your quest to find out if she likes you is, the girl’s subconscious mind. People aren’t able to control their unconscious actions, so you need to notice them. So what do you need to look out for?

She Makes Jokes About Her Boyfriend

One easy way to tell is if a girl is in a bad relationship if she continually makes fun of her boyfriend. If she is always doing this around you, it could be that she doesn’t find her guy attractive anymore.

If it’s more mean spirited joking, it means that she’s starting to lose interest and is openly showing it. It would be best if you still took caution, because this isn’t the only sign you need to look out for.

She Never Mentions Him

Often when a girl is interested in someone, and they have a boyfriend, they don’t talk about him to you. If a girl isn’t interested in a guy or is in a good relationship, she’ll find any excuse to mention her guy.

You might not even know she has a boyfriend. So the news might come as a surprise. You could get this information through a mutual friend or randomly meet the guy one day.

This still doesn’t mean she’s in love with you. Sometimes women don’t like to randomly mention their boyfriends unless it’s relevant.

She’s Always Going Out

She would prefer to go out with you rather than her boyfriend. It’s not easy to tell if this is the case though. But, if she’s willing to go out with you and your friends often, it’s a good sign.

A girl who is in a healthy relationship will usually spend time exclusively with their boyfriends or bring him along. If he’s absent or she’s going out anytime you ask her out, then chances are the relationship is on the ropes.

She Contacts You First

Does she regularly call or text you for particular favors? Maybe she got a flat tire or needs help with something. Alternatively, if something positive happens in her life, like a new job, you’ll be one of the first to know.

This means that she wants to have an excuse to hang out with you. Her boyfriend could do any of these favors, but she chooses to call you. If she’s always contacting you first, it’s a powerful sign.

Always Happy To See You

Is she consistently excited and happy to see you? If so then there’s a good chance that you’ve left a strong impression on her. This is primarily a good sign if you don’t know her that well. Usually, people get excited to see their close friends or people they know well. If you get this reaction without being that close, it could mean that she wants to get to know you better.

Your Opinion Matters

We tend to want the opinion of people we value or hold in high esteem. The same scenario applies here. She will want to know what you think about her new car, shoes, and other things that she buys. The only reason for this is because she wants to know your taste or your lifestyle.

She’s Touchy

Try to notice any excessive or unnecessary touching. If a girl hugs you, it’s not something to read into extensively. If she is getting touchy with you, it could mean that she wants more of you.

Take note if she only touches you if her boyfriend isn’t around. She might become shy and reserved when he’s present but become physical when he’s not. She might give you long, tender hugs or always brush against your arm or leg.

Some girls are physical, so try to see if she is doing this only with you or to everyone else.

Becomes Distant From Her Boyfriend

If you’re hanging out with her, do you notice if she is ignoring her boyfriend? She might take a quick peek at her phone and then put it away. Alternatively, it will begin to ring, and she decides to ignore the call.

The time she’s spending with you is much more important to her than replying to her boyfriend. Even though it takes only a few moments, she would rather not waste time. This can also mean that the communication is starting to break down in her current relationship. Be aware that they might just be having a small argument, so don’t get too ahead of yourself.

She Brings You To An Important Event

For any critical event, the default is to bring your significant other. So what if a girl asks you to go instead of her boyfriend?

This can be a bit tricky. It can be that her boyfriend is out of town and she trusts you enough to invite you. Alternatively, she would instead ask you out to the event. This could mean that she doesn’t care about her boyfriend anymore and is acting recklessly.

She Starts To Become Attached To You

Is she starting to become attached to you and rely on you for emotional support? It means that she is becoming emotionally attached to you.

This could mean that she’s starting to open her heart to you. Alternatively, it could also mean that she trusts you as a close friend and your opinion matters to her. It all depends on the context of the conversation.

Does she talk about problems in her relationship and drop some apparent hints? Is it just about how sad she is about losing a pet? Paying attention to the context will point you in the right direction.

So What Should You Do?

So you’ve looked at all the signs and everything points to a green light. You’re positive that she’s ready to dump her boyfriend to you. So you should go for it, right?

No, you should stop and think about the whole situation. Who exactly is her boyfriend to you? Is he a personal friend, an acquaintance, or a total stranger? It doesn’t matter because you should consider if you want to be responsible for causing emotional distress to someone else.

So you’ve decided that you love this girl, and you don’t care about her guy, so anything else to consider? Yes, there is one essential consideration, which is a golden rule. The rule states, “If they’re willing to cheat with you, then they’re willing to cheat on you” so keep that in mind.

Our advice is to wait it out and see what happens. If her relationship is on the rocks, it might end, and then you’ll have a fair chance. Breakups are always really complicated, and if you jump into something right away, it might end badly for you and her.

So, consider everything before making this big decision.

Body Language – the unspoken words

This list shouldn’t be confused with the signs we talked about earlier. When we talk about body language, we mean the conscious and unconscious postures and movements which can communicate feelings.

We’ll take you through a list of specific movements and poses girls do that let you know she’s interested in you.

The Back Arch

Both men and women will unconsciously do this. A man will try to make his chest look big by depressing their shoulders a bit, which will make him appear stronger. A woman will arch her back which will give the impression of bigger breasts, and it will also bring her legs into full view.

With this move, she will be trying to get your attention (usually subconsciously) by emphasizing her body. Sometimes it could be a subtle stretch, but if you notice this movement, it means she wants to get your attention.

All About The Hair

If a girl is always playing with her hair when she’s talking to you, then it’s a great sign. She’ll be tossing her hair around or twirling it in her hand. It’s undeniable when she has no reason to do this, especially if there was no reason to mess with it.

Prolonged Gaze

Does she stare at you for a long time without breaking eye contact? A prolonged stare usually means that a girl is interested in you.

Also, the kind of expression she has on can give away her intentions. She might be raising her eyebrow or giving you a little smile that she’s not even aware of.

When She Crosses and Uncrosses Her Legs

This one is a little trickier to be confident of. There’s a high probability that she’s just trying to find a comfortable position. However, she may be doing it out of a nervous habit. So try to notice if she’s only doing it if you’re around.

She’s Always Facing You

When we’re giving someone our full attention, we tend to point our bodies towards them. Specifically, our feet and knees will face the direction of what we are interested in. If we want to leave a conversation, our legs will be facing another direction.

If you are talking to a girl and her feet are always point towards you, it means you have her attention. Even if you’re in a group, you might notice that her legs stay in your direction. This is usually done unconsciously by your legs and your brain. If you see a girl always pointing in your direction, it’s a clear sign she finds you attractive.

She Laughs Anyway

Sometimes you might crack an idiotic joke, but to your surprise, she laughs! Even when you crack awful jokes, she’ll still be amused. This means that she doesn’t care what the joke is, but she likes it because you told it.

You Can Make Her Blush

Women blush for a lot of different reasons. Sometimes it could be because all the attention is on them or if they get asked a difficult question. You can use this to your advantage by trying to make them blush.

You don’t need to ask any inappropriate question or make them embarrassed. A lovely, small compliment will do the trick. If she blushes and isn’t sure how to respond, then it was a success. If she’s more disturbed or confused, then she probably doesn’t have any feeling for you.

She’s Always Smiling At You

We can’t help but smile when we see someone whom we have feelings for. Try to notice if a girl is always smiling at you. You can even smile back often and see if her face lights up. Just be sure that she isn’t just a cheerful person and always smiles at everyone.

You Can Get Close

We all need our personal space. People are usually very concerned about maintaining a comfortable distance from others. If you pay close attention, you can see where this invisible line is drawn.

If you can get close to her without her becoming uncomfortable, then she is welcoming you into her personal space. Alternatively, she might be the bold one who gets close to you.

Even if she isn’t intruding in your comfort zone, she might always be near you. A minute ago she could be standing in another part of a group, and the next she’s right next to you.

Use Body Language To Your Advantage

While you don’t need to study these behaviors, being aware of them is essential. She might be trying to hide her feelings, or doesn’t know how to approach you.

If you notice some of these signs, then you have a good chance of asking them out.

Ladies, do you find yourself friends with a handsome guy but you’re not sure if the feeling is mutual? Reading into men’s body language is a lot easier than it sounds. You don’t need to be a psychologist or an expert in precise and subtle movements.

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All you need to do is pay attention to a few behaviors and movements, which we’ve compiled in this handy guide:

His Pupils Become Dilated

When people see someone they’re attracted to; their pupils will increase in size! This phenomenon is known as mydriasis, which can show you that he’s attracted to you.

Our eyes naturally dilate daily, depending on changing light conditions. In a darker place, the pupils widen to let in more light. However, if you notice he has large pupils in a light environment, then he’s probably infatuated with you.

He Gives You a Sincere Look

We’ve mentioned staring plenty of times before. However, if he gives you a heartfelt and soft look, it means he feels strongly about you. He will do it sweetly, usually with a little smile.

This shouldn’t be confused with a menacing or weird look. You will be able to tell if it’s a genuine look or just an eerie demeanor.

He’s Always Facing You

When you’re having a long conversation or a quick chat in passing, is he always facing towards you? We don’t mean just his head, but his entire body, down to his feet.

When guys want to give you their full attention, they will unconsciously be in line with your body. Someone in a hurry points their body facing the way they need to go. So even if a guy is in a hurry, if he stops and pivots his whole body towards yours, it means he wants to stay and talk.

The Baritone Effect

Another hard to spot clue is in the voice box. Guys will unwittingly deepen their voice to sound more masculine. Usually, it’s not that exaggerated, so a keen sense of hearing is required.

It’s still up for debate if women find this attractive. Regardless, it’s still something that many guys do, so keep an ear out for it.

You See His Front Teeth

We mean that you will see a huge, genuine smile. Usually, when someone puts on a fake or insincere smile, they’re just moving their lips. If someone grins wide enough to see their teeth, you know it’s authentic.

If a guy does this a lot, it means he’s really having plenty of fun with you. He is honestly happy, and he isn’t able to play it cool.

He Will Keep Both Lips Moistened

This one might seem a little strange, but it’s another nervous habit people have. He will regularly pull his lips into his mouth for a second. He might even combine it with looking in different directions.

Even women will do this when they’re feeling stressed out. Licking your own lips actually dries them out more, so there’s nothing useful about it. If you a guy doing it, especially when you start talking, he might be feeling anxious.

He Regularly Touches His Neck

One of the most vulnerable parts of the body is the neck. So another anxious tendency is to touch it, usually on the side. This comes across as being on guard since they feel a little exposed.

The only reason for a guy to feel exposed is if he feels threatened. We don’t mean threatened in a life or death way. He’s just attracted to you and wants to try and ‘guard’ himself.

He Takes a Deep Breath

Making a heavy sigh can be for several reasons. If he does it when he sees you, it means his heart yearns for you. The physiological basis for this is that when he breathes in quickly, he fills his chest with air, which makes him look more fit.

Usually, this isn’t done on purpose but is more of a reaction. Sometimes the sigh is done because he feels like he doesn’t have a chance with you. So it’s up to you if you want to prove him wrong.

Pay Close Attention

Let’s face the truth; unlike women, men are much easier to figure out. If you look into the way a guy conducts himself around you, you can read him like a book. Once you have the knowledge that he is interested in you romantically, you can decide and quickly determine how to proceed.

Irish women are known for being energetic, enigmatic, captivating and extremely fun to be around. Men who aren’t from Ireland are surprised by all of these fantastic characteristics.

So, if you plan on taking a trip to Ireland, let us be your tour guide. Not for any beautiful castles or serene landscapes, but for Irish women. Just be sure to pack all of your ‘Craic’ (conversation), because you’ll need all of it.

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Loyalty Is More Than a Word

We’ve mentioned previously that Russian girls are intensely loyal. Well, Irish girls may be able to take commitment to another level. They are already loyal to their family and their friends. So they have a devoted attitude from early on in life. When you become part of an Irish girl’s life, you can be sure that she is trustworthy.

Irish women pride themselves on being utterly loyal to their loved ones. Just make sure never to become between her and the people close to her. Always treat her family friends with the utmost respect, and never act brash or rude. You’ll get tons of bonus points if her friends or family take a liking to you.

She’s In Love With Tea

This is definitely worth putting on the list because chances are, your Irish lass will drink heaps of tea. Irish women find comfort and relaxation in a nice, steaming cup of tea. You’ll really impress her if you know your teas and can genuinely enjoy a cup. Most of the guys they know only love whiskey and Guinness, so a cultured guy like you will pique her interest.

Try to learn all the nuances of making tea. You don’t need to become a master in the art of preparing tea. However, if you know how to make a good cup, she’ll be blown away. Knowing just how she likes her tea will show her that you pay attention to small details. She’ll notice this little gesture and will understand that you care about her deeply.

Be on Irish Time

Generally speaking, the Irish are known to be pretty relaxed. Rushing here and there and stressing out is not their thing. Neither is being on time, so keep that in mind. Irish women take this concept to an entirely new level.

If an Irish girl tells you that she will be there in 30 minutes, you should be prepared for an hour. This doesn’t mean she’s unreliable or untrustworthy. All it means is that you need to get used to the pace of life in the Irish Isles. You just need to learn to relax and be on Irish time. When your girl shows up, I guarantee you won’t mind waiting a little longer.

You Are Her Protection Against The Elements

Ireland has a maritime climate, and although it doesn’t get as cold as much of Europe, it rains a lot. In addition to the rain, it is also very windy much of the year. So if you are going out with an Irish girl, don’t forget to bring the umbrella!

She probably won’t forget hers, but coming prepared will be better than showing up empty-handed. She’ll appreciate it if you shield her from the rain and piercing wind.

Everything Isn’t Fine

When chatting with an Irish girl, be careful of certain words like ‘grand’ or ‘fine.’ Usually, if they utter these words, especially with an annoyed tone, it’s best to tread carefully.

On the surface, these words aren’t hard to understand. That said, in Ireland, these words translate into something else. The translation is usually, “I’m not fine/I’m annoyed.” So be on guard when she uses one of these terms.

You’ll Get Treated Too

Going to an Irish pub with an Irish girl is an incredible experience. Since the pub is part of their culture, they know how to have fun. It’s a cultural thing for everyone at the table to buy a round of drinks.

If you want her to melt in your arms, then buy a couple of rounds for the table. Your generosity will win her over. You can also try buying her a couple of drinks directly, but beware that she won’t let you pay for everything.

White Sheets Are Her Worst Enemy

One cultural phenomenon in Ireland is the use of fake tan. Since there isn’t so much sunshine to go around, Irish women will get their tan from a can. They don’t use a lot, but enough to come off on white linen. So if you want to do yourself a huge favor, don’t get any white bed sheets.

Lastly, Get Used To Cheese and Onion

This may seem a bit strange at first, but it turns out cheese and onion crisps are extremely popular. If you bag an Irish girl, there’s a good chance she’ll fancy this smelly snack. It might be quite disgusting at first, but you’ll just need to accept it. Don’t try to get her to stop, or you will undoubtedly regret trying.

Set Sail For The Irish Isles

Ireland may have some of the most beautiful and exciting women on the planet. Having very own Galway girl is more realistic than you think. Remember not to mess with their family and always be extra generous with the drinks when you hit the pub.

I can tell you from experience that it can be difficult to date someone from another country. Culture, customs, and behaviors may be drastically different. Despite that, you should view it as an excellent opportunity to learn about a new culture intimately.

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Traveling to Holland can put you face-to-face with some of the most amazing women in the world. They are straight to the point and very self-confident. What I mean by ‘straight to the point’ is actually brutal honesty. They know what they want, and they know exactly how to get it.

Don’t be scared off just yet; there are a lot of amazing traits that Dutch women possess.

She’s Sincere, Brutally

Dutch women are very open and direct at the same time. You might interpret this as rudeness, but just understand that it’s part of their culture. They are very straight forward and don’t like to beat around the bush. Just remember not to feel insulted, they aren’t trying to be mean, they just don’t want to waste any of their precious time.

They will tell you directly if they want to go out with you or not. Also, if they have an opinion about you, they won’t hesitate to let you know. It would be best if you did the same thing, so be open and honest with them.

She Likes To Dress Casually

If she shows up to a date in a sweater and a pair of raggedy sneakers, don’t storm out. It’s not that she’s trying to disrespect you or put in a low effort. It’s just that Dutch women like to dress casually and value comfort over looks.

It would help if you accepted that she would feel best in a pair of jeans and a cardigan. Unless it’s an exceptional event, she typically won’t go through the effort of getting all dressed up. Remember that it goes both ways, so you don’t have to get dressed up either. Throw on your most comfortable shoes and jacket, and you’ll be in similar company.

She’s a Natural Feminist

Dutch women are feminists by nature, but this certainly isn’t a con. You shouldn’t see them as a helpless woman who is looking for her prince charming. I advise you not to perceive any woman this way, but Dutch women are exceptional.

You can easily go to a pub or local bar, order a few beers and crack a lot of jokes. They are down to earth and enjoy men who are too. Don’t try to act like a big shot or show off any material things. They aren’t interested, but what they are interested in is a genuinely kind guy.

‘Going Dutch’

Don’t even think about trying to buy them everything. Anywhere you go they will want to split the bill with you unless it’s something insignificant. Even then, they will pay you back one way or another.

It’s not about pride; they are very independent and want to make their way in the world. Even though it’s nice to split the bill, many guys will take it personally. As though she doesn’t want your money. So relax, and be happy that she wants to take equal responsibility in paying for your dates.

She Can Be Aggressive

Often, Dutch women can be hot-blooded. As you now know, they aren’t shy. So if they get upset, prepare for a grilling. They won’t hesitate to put you in your place.

Since they are very independent, they are also dominant in relationships. They know they are equal and have an equal say in the relationship. Don’t be intimidated by this, but learn to cope and communicate. In the end, you may need to just deal with it, but will you be able to?

She’s Ambitious

Dutch women are also known for being very driven, which may be a side effect of their keen sense of independence. They are goal oriented and don’t like the idea of being a stay at home mom. This doesn’t mean that they don’t want a family, but they want to have their career first.

For example, in the Netherlands, every week there is a day known as “papadag.” On this day, men get one day every single week to spend time with their children. It’s not all fun and games though. Men expected to be able to take care of the daily chores, cook, and entertain their kids.

The point is that men get to experience what a stay-at-home mom experiences. So he can give her some time off and also take part in raising the kids.

She Loves Home Cooking

If you want to improve your chances with any girl, then you need to learn how to cook, like right now. This will help you greatly win over a Dutch girl’s heart. She loves sweets, and if you bake, you will be a gem in her eyes.


If you can’t bake, then jump on your bike and ride directly to the supermarket. Once there, find and buy her hagelslag. These are little chocolate sprinkles that all Dutch people love to put on their bread. If you give her a steady supply of hagelslag, she’ll probably won’t stop loving you.

Don’t Forget the Muisjes

Before I end this article, there’s one last thing you need to know. If you end up marrying a Dutch girl, don’t forget to get muisjes. These are bread toppings made with sugar-coated Anise seeds. It’s customary in the Netherlands to have this topping after a child’s birth.

Find Your Girl

The most important thing to remember about Dutch women is to be genuine. Don’t fake anything or act more important than you really are. These women aren’t afraid to speak their mind and want to be equal with you. So if you aren’t scared off by now, then that means you’re shopping for your plane ticket already.

Brazilian women are known for being super fit, sexy, and fun. If you ask any guy if he could date a girl from any country, he will most likely say Brazil.

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We can confirm that everything they say about Brazilian girls is true, to an extent. Whether this type of girl is right for you depends wholly on your personality.

So study this article before you make your trip to the land of beautiful beaches and women. We’ll tell you if you are the type of person who can handle these astonishing women.

She’s Gorgeous

It’s not an exaggeration when we say that all girls in Brazil are beautiful. Okay, maybe we’re exaggerating a little, but they are ubiquitous. They have honey-toned skin, dark brown eyes, and voluminous, wavy hair.

It’s not all about looks either. They have the confidence to match their beauty. They wear thin bikinis and flowing dresses with plunging necklines daily. Yet, they still have a feminine side that they aren’t afraid to show.

She’s Approachable

Brazilian girls have outgoing and friendly personalities. If you catch their eye, then they will not hesitate to come and speak to you. She might ask for your number or suggest for you to buy her drink.

They are easy to have a conversation with and have a great sense of humor. Good vibes are what they are after, so you’ll impress them if you are relaxed can have a good time.

Don’t expect them to be ‘easy’ though. They won’t get into bed with anybody, especially if they’re only a foreigner. This carefree lifestyle makes people think that they are easy to get with, but it isn’t true. They hope to be treated well and taken out.

She Has No Concept of Personal Space

If personal space is essential to you, then you might want to stay where you are. In Brazilian culture, the norm is to be very physical and not so reserved. Brazilian women are very comfortable with physical touch and getting close. If you are a physical person, then you will especially enjoy being with the women in Brazil.

Despite at all this, she might not be so touchy with a foreigner. She understands that you come from a different place and different culture. She’ll act a little more cautious. If she can’t help touching you, then it means she’s comfortable with you.

She is Focused

Some people mistake fun and carefree personalities for being lazy or undetermined. Actually, the opposite is true. They are very enthusiastic when it comes to both work and pleasure.

Throughout history, Brazilian women had to face an oppressive patriarchy. Beginning in the 20th century, the situation started to change as they earned more rights. Peaking in the 21st century, Brazilian women began to see real equality and became hyper-motivated.

So don’t go to Brazil expecting women to see you as a wealthy foreigner to exploit, because the times are certainly changing.

Family is Everything

If you’re interested in a woman who will get along with your crazy family, then look no further. A Brazilian girl will treat your family like her own. Family is a crucial part of Brazilian culture. So don’t be shy when you introduce her to your family, she will be sure to love them.

She’s Into Sports Just As Much As You

Soccer is as vital to Brazilians as football is to Americans. If you start dating a Brazilian girl, make sure you know a thing or two about the Brazilian national team. It will also help if you’re a sporty person yourself because there’s a reason she’s so fit, and it’s not because she sits at home all day.

Going out and playing soccer or volleyball is a past time in Brazil. If you have some skills in these sports, then it will be a huge plus. Brazilian girls are really impressed by guys who are fit and know how to play.

She’s Exotic

Although this can be considered a plus, it can also be a con depending on who you are. Introverted or more reserved personalities don’t mix well with the open and fun attitude of Brazilian women.

They love to go out and have a lot of fun at the beach, carnivals, and parties. If you’re more the relaxing and staying in type, then you might not be compatible with Brazilian girls.

Her Family is Part of the Package

Her sense of family will be firm, and she will be with them a lot. In Brazil, the family plays a critical part of life. Although this applies to most cultures, Brazilians take it to a new level.

An anthropology study found that 69% of women in Brazil carry a financial burden for elderly relatives. This figure is significantly higher than in other countries. So it’s no joke, she will do whatever it takes to help out her family.

So if you start dating a Brazilian girl, get ready to date their family too. She’ll spend a lot of time with them or on the phone if she’s away. You’ll do yourself a huge favor if you maintain a good relationship with them because they have a substantial influence on the daughter.

Party Time

If you’re a guy who’s athletic and open for adventure, then your priority should be to find a Brazilian girl. We’re not saying you shouldn’t try if you’re a little more reserved, but you will find yourself out of your comfort zone.

If you are looking for a girl who is stunning and humble at the same time, then India is where you should start your search.

There are a few things you should know about girls from India though. Especially if you’re a westerner, some of the cultural differences might shock you.

Luckily we’re here to help you navigate some confusing aspects of Indian culture.

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Indian Women are Remarkably Beautiful

Part of their beauty is also how exotic they seem, especially to a westerner. Her alluring features will instantly draw you in. She’s stunning in a modern dress or a traditional saree. If you are lucky enough to see her completely dressed up, you’ll think you were looking at a fabled Indian queen.

Indian Food

It goes almost without saying that Indian cuisine is some of the best on the planet. Every dish is bursting with amazing flavors, most of which you’ve probably never had before.

All Indian women are naturally amazing cooks. Most girls spent their childhoods helping their mothers prepare various dishes. So when you start dating an Indian girl, then she will make you exotic foods. Even if she doesn’t like to cook so much, she’ll know where all the best Indian restaurants are.

Dating an Indian girl is like winning the food lottery. Just make sure you aren’t a picky eater or can’t handle spice.

She’s Not Dull

Indian girls are not boring and reserved. Many people think this because they have strong ties with customs and traditions. Indian girls like to party and go out as much as they do in the west.

Indian girls also love the various festivals that take place in India. Although you could do this on your own, being with an Indian girl at a festival is the real experience. She’ll even open your eyes to some of the best festivals like Holi and Diwali.

They Are Not Prudes

This is a huge misconception, which once again has to do with the traditional style of many girls. Of course, everyone is different, but Indians girls are not hyper-conservative.

They enjoy sex and are very active in the process. You won’t need to extend your hand in marriage before getting into bed with her. Of course, these very traditional types of girls exist, but it isn’t as widespread as you might think.

Attending Weddings Is An Adventure

Just telling you about it won’t do it any justice. Indian weddings are huge and miraculous event. If you can visit one with your Indian girlfriend, then you’re in for a fantastic experience.

Indian weddings typically last a few days, each day bursting with celebration. Everyone is wearing bright, vivid colors and everything is decorated to perfection. Henna tattoos, dancing, and endless amounts of Indian food are just a few of the things you’ll enjoy.

Casual Dating is Frowned Upon

Casually dating is not something that is generally accepted. Don’t expect her to say yes to a date right away. It would help if you got to know her better before popping the question.

Her parents will also be totally against any casual dating. It’s still expected of you to ask her parents if you can take her out. If she is texting or calling you, it will be in secret because her parents can’t know.

What if she’s totally independent of her family and lives in her own place? Still, family is a crucial part of her life, and she’ll still need to keep it a secret.

Family Pressure

So let’s say you’re beyond the initial dating barrier. Everything is good with her folks, and the relationship is going smoothly. Suddenly, there’s pressure from her family about marriage and kids.


Indian parents are notorious for bullying their kids into settling down. So if her parents accept you, they will be pushing for marriage. If your girl is 25 or older, expect the tension to be higher. Any girl not married after 30 is considered a shame to her family.

Too Spicy?

As you’ve already read, the traditions and culture in India are responsible for the positive and negative things about dating Indian women. On the one hand, you can have a multitude of unique experiences. On the other, you’ll have to withstand some strange customs and societal norms.

In the end, it’s up to you to decide if you can take the heat.

First, I need to let you realize that dating in Denmark can be tough if you are a foreigner. We’re not trying to discourage you, but be aware that dating in Denmark is remarkably different than in other western countries.

Danes have a very particular dating culture. They tend to skip the flirting altogether and are instead more direct with their emotions.

So, to have a better chance with a Danish girl, you need to know about a few of their quirks.

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She Prefers To Be Among Friends

Like we mentioned, dating in Denmark is not like other countries. If you approach a girl you don’t know and ask her out for a cup of coffee, expect rejection. You’ll have the same result if you approach a girl at a club and ask to dance or go out for a smoke.

You might be wondering what’s wrong with you, or you conclude that she just wasn’t interested. However, the more you try, the more you’ll notice a trend. You’ll find that not a single Danish girl will want to go on a date with you. However, the real reason is that Danish women are not good with people they don’t know.

The way to meet Danish women is to become their friend or become a mutual friend. You’ll make a lot of progress if you make male Danish friends first. You instantly become more trustworthy by being a mutual friend. Don’t expect them to jump into your lap though. You’ll still need to get to know them better.

Underdress Rather Than Overdress

Danish women are not impressed with guys who try to appear flashy. Brands, fancy watches and gadgets are not going to impress her. She prefers to dress casually and appreciates a guy who does the same.

Unless the occasion calls for it, don’t overdress yourself. Also, don’t expect a Danish girl to get all done up. She’ll most likely wear a comfortable dress rather than wear something fancy. Remember to keep it casual but not sloppy.

Money Doesn’t Impress Her

Danish girls prefer to judge people based on their merits, rather than their possessions. They don’t care if you have a fancy apartment, the newest Mercedes, or how prestigious your job is.

The society in Denmark is very fair, and very nonhierarchical. This means that everyone sees each other on the same level. Not that they don’t have respect for anybody, but they understand that everyone is more or less equal. So by trying to seem better than others, you’ll be sabotaging yourself.

She’s Attracted to Intelligence

So you can’t use your material things, but you can use that thing in your head. Your brain will be your best ally in charming a Dane. We don’t mean that you need to know a lot of useless facts, but that you are a worldly person.

An in-depth conversation on just about anything will be better than any small talk. Just don’t get ahead of yourself and try to make yourself seem smarter. She will be interested in a guy who is down to earth and authentic.

She Interested In Good Deeds

If you want to impress a Danish girl, mention something you did that had a positive impact. Danes care about society at large as well as the environment. So they’re more interested in things that you have done rather than what you have.

Say for instance that you’re a biologist. Maybe you tell most people that your work is tedious and that it’s nothing special. Don’t bring the same attitude to a Danish girl you want to date. Instead, tell her that your research has the potential to further human knowledge or possibly benefit someone.

Your good deeds will leave her with a favorable impression of you. It will also help you a lot more than any physical object can.

Ultimately, Be Straightforward

We mentioned at the beginning of this article that Danish women are fond of being direct. Danes, in general, don’t like to overcomplicate or waste precious time. So you need to be just as blunt as they are.

We aren’t saying that you should be mean and uncaring. What we mean is that you should never be ambiguous. Just think about what you want to say and say it as simply as possible.

It would be best if you also tried not to use too many flattering phrases either. As we already explained, pick up lines won’t work on a Danish girl.

Held og lykke! (Good Luck)

In the end, dating a Danish girl will require you to become part of her circle. Then you’ll really get close if you show her that you are a person with substance. Having a caring and sober personality is going to be worth more than gold to her. Finally, just be upfront and say what you really mean and don’t avoid the issue.

Many people say that South Koreans make the best girlfriends in the world. Men across the globe have what’s called ‘Korean fever,’ because they are so desirable. They are sexy, sweet, loyal, fun, and have an innocence not found in other women.

It’s not all fun and games though. Korean women expect the world from their partners. Women always expect a lot from their men, but Koreans take it to a whole new level.

If you think you know what it takes to date a South Korean girl, then think again. Here are six tips that will help you understand them better.

Related article: 24 Clear Signals That Means She’s in Love With You

Your Pleasure Is Also Hers

One of the behaviors ingrained in South Korean women is how subservient they are. Her priority is to make sure you are satisfied at all times. Whether it be food, sex, or comfort, she wants you to make sure you’re attended to.

She will show you the highest respect and be utterly loyal to you. You need to be careful with this type of girl though. She isn’t one you can dump easily. She will be a lasting partner, and you will find it difficult to let go.

Cuteness Overload

So we all know how K-pop singers and celebrities all look super cute but are they like that in real life? The short answer is yes, and the long answer is definitely yes!

One of the main appeals of dating a Korean girl is just how cute they are. One look into their pretty eyes and I guarantee you’ll fall in love. However, don’t think for a second that they don’t know what they’re doing. They have a secret weapon for being extra cute, known as Aegyo.

Aegyo is when a girl uses a cute display of affection. It’s typically expressed through the use of a cute/baby voice, sweet facial expression, and adorable gestures. They use this tactic on those whom they care about deeply. So if you notice your heart melting, it might be because Aegyo is being used on you.

Korean Girls Are Highly Educated

Korean women are some of the most highly educated demographic in all of Asia. A recent study has found that up to 92% of all Korean girls continue to higher education after high school.

This means that they are well rounded and possess a great deal of knowledge and probably a university degree. So if you come looking for love, make sure to pack your brain as well. They treasure intelligence and hold it in high regard. They will adore you if you respect but also challenge their intellect.

You don’t need to be a genius with multiple PhDs to enter the dating scene. However, you do need to be quite sharp.

Technology Addicted

We can all admit to being addicted to our smartphones, but Koreans are inseparable from their phones. With that in mind, you need to keep yours close at hand at all times. If she sends you a message do not wait to respond. Be lightning fast with your phone if she asks you anything.

Missing a call from her might be the worst crime you can commit. If you do, be prepared for a flurry of calls and texts asking why you couldn’t pick up. We advise that you take the initiative and phone her regularly and send many texts throughout the day.

Be Prepared To Spend Plenty of Money

One downside in Korean culture is the infatuation of money and material goods. They value expensive gifts, fancy cars, and prestigious jobs. Financial stability is something that many Korean women look for in a man.

They like to go out and eat at fancy restaurants often. Also, don’t even think about trying to split the bill. You’re expected to pay for everything on the date. Although this is changing over time, it’s still a safe bet to assume that you’ll always pick up the tab.

You won’t be doing yourself any favors if you try to be cheap. Many Korean girls will not respond well to this kind of behavior. Of course not every Korean girl is shallow. However, as a general rule, expect to shell out ample amounts of money if you start dating in Korea.

Constant Comparisons

Social media is ubiquitous no matter where you are. However, Koreans are notorious for their regular social media use. Wherever you go with your date or whatever you do will all end up on social media. While this seems harmless, it ends up adding loads of pressure and anxiety to a relationship.

This pressure manifests itself because your relationship turns into a competition against others. Your girlfriend will continuously be measuring your relationship versus those of her friends. If a friend is posting lovely gifts or lavish vacations, you’ll be expected to do the same or better.

So our advice is to take it somewhat seriously and stay ahead in this competition. You will need to keep the dates interesting, the gifts romantic, and the trips unforgettable.

Finding Your Seoul Mate

We wish you luck in your journey in the South Korean dating scene. With these tips, you now know more about the intricacies of Korean women and will be more successful. Stay focused, and remember that your prize will be an adorable, loyal, and intelligent girl.

America is one of the most culturally diverse countries in the world. This diversity makes it challenging to make any general guideline about the women there.

Many people who live there have parents from foreign countries. So they might have a slightly different upbringing. Despite that, there are specific things that all American girls like and dislike, even if they’re first generation.

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As a side note, these tips are useful mainly for guys not from the USA. You can utilize these tips if you know an American in your country, or if you will begin living in the USA.

Before we begin, we’d like to point out a few things you shouldn’t do. Refrain from:

Being Disrespectful of Her Accent

Yes, they know that British English is the ‘proper’ form of English. Do they care? Definitely not, so please don’t bring it up unless she does first.

Bringing Up Bad TV

You can’t believe Americans created mindless and tasteless shows like Dr. Phil and Jerry Springer among countless others. So you should tell that cute American girl about how horrible it is. She doesn’t care because she doesn’t have anything to do with it.

Talking About Politics

Talking about political issues is never really recommended. Especially right now, the US is hugely divided and is facing a lot of social problems. Seriously, do not bring up the latest mass murder or Trump scandal. It’s already all over the TV and internet, so you don’t need to mention it.

Making Fun of Their Food

America is the land of fast food, so they must only eat burgers and fries. They have no idea what authentic cuisine is.

Just don’t, because you’ll end up looking stupid since she probably grew up with homemade meals. Maybe one or both of her parents are from Mexico or India where they enjoy some of the best cuisines in the world.

Criticize Their Healthcare

Do not bring up how inferior the US healthcare system is to the one in your country. There’s a good chance she or a loved one has had to struggle with hospital bills.

Now that that’s out of the way, we’ve compiled five tips to get that American girl to pay attention to you.

Don’t Complain

It’s true that everyone gripes about the events that are happening in their lives. However, there’s a massive difference between blowing off a little steam and whining. Let me tell you, American women strongly dislike whiners.

I’m sure this is true for other countries, but I have never seen a girl turned off faster than if a guy starts whining. In her eyes, he’s just a big, irresponsible baby who can’t deal with life.

Almost everyone is struggling in their own way and have a multitude of things to deal with. Always whining about it is a sure way to lose all the respect of that beautiful American girl.

Get It Done

As silly as it sounds, the ‘get er done’ attitude prevails in the USA. Americans do what it takes to get the job done without any extra fuss. So if you tell a cute girl you’ll do something, you better get it done.

What this boils down to is that Americans value reliability. Your word is only as good as your actions. So if you do what you say, consistently, then you’ll be more attractive to that American girl.

Keep it Simple

Americans dislike it when things get complicated, especially for no reason at all. Try to keep it simple and be direct when you interact with American women.

If you plan to ask her out, go straight up to her and ask her out and have a place in mind. If you try to ask her out in an indirect manner, she’ll only be annoyed when she figures out your intentions. If you decide to do it in this indirect way, I guarantee you will blow your chances with her.

Be Spontaneous

Americans are known to be crazy, and they love adventure. So try to show them a good time without having a concrete plan. You can sort of impulsively ask them out to something in the moment and make it up as you go along.

The more outrageous the night turns out to be, the better. If you can pull it off, she’ll probably fall in love with you. We have to admit this isn’t always the best approach, especially if there isn’t a lot going on the day you decide to go out. In the worst case, you’ll most likely still get a second date.

Be Very Friendly

You don’t need to act disingenuine or force a conversation. However, Americans are known for being absurdly friendly and approachable. Many times Americans are shocked by how cold people are in other parts of the world.

So give that beautiful American girl a nice warm smile and a pleasant conversation. She’ll take notice and be more interested in you since you remind her of home. Even if you’re in the USA, it’ll still be a good strategy because she’ll see you as a charming foreigner.

Dating The Red White And Blue

There are many topics that you need to avoid when hitting on an American girl. They have strong national pride, so anything that has to do with American ideals is a no go. Of course, this doesn’t apply to everyone, but it’s a good general rule. Just remember to be direct, follow through, and be open for an adventure.